How to Live Your Dreams

How to Live Your DREAMS

Ever wonder why when we were younger our dreams and capability to imagine things are so vivid as compared to when became older?

Children imagine things as if they were true, they play roles of superheroes and villains that appear so real to them they don’t care what grown-ups might think or say. They live in this world of theirs that is built on their imagination. We all once understood what it was like to live in that world of make believe because once in our life we became children. But as we grow older and start to understand how things and the world work, we started to part ways to what we consider childish thinking. Little do we know or try hard not to let others know that deep inside we are longing to become young again so that we can be free to imagine and live in that kind of world again.

What’s stopping us?

Habits of Happy People

Habits of Happy People

·         Decide to be Happy

            Happiness depends in the inner conditions and not the outer conditions. If we realize      that we hold the power to decide what to feel regardless of what happens in our           environment/surroundings, you instantly gain happiness.

            Let me share a story from my friend’s post, she calls this “Law of the Garbage Truck”.

FAILURE (FAIL FORWARD)

Failing F.O.R.W.A.R.D.

“Failure” – We all experience failure or failures in our lives. Better expect to experience a few more as you go along. We all had passed this road of failure one way or another in our lives even if we are too pompous to admit it. Some of us maybe currently, are traversing this way. When we are at this point of the road, the path usually separates into a cross road that we are forced to choose which way to go from then on.

The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people are not the amount or kind of failures they have. You might be surprised that they actually have experienced more failures than most people instead of the other way around. The difference is between the way they handle and use these failures. Yes, you read it right. USE! They refuse to accept that they are a failure.

“You are a failure only if you accept that you are”

Successful people see these failures as “failure blocks” and they stock & pile them to be used as steps to climb the ladder towards success. These “blocks” become their stepping stones to reach their goals.

Instead of focusing on their failures, they focus on their goals; they collect the knowledge they gained from the experience and move on.

So, how does one get through failure and still succeed? Well, when you experience failure, instead of lingering on that state, why don’t you choose to rather FAIL FORWARD?

“Your failure doesn’t define you, but it can shape you depending on how you let it. Remember that you’re always in control.

Here’s what I mean about FAILING FORWARD:

F              - Feel the Pain

O             - Open Yourself to New Opportunities

R             - Reset Goals / Redefine Values

W            - Wait for the Healing to Take Its Full Course

A             - Ask for Support

R             - Reinvent Yourself

D             - Document Your Experience